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LOVE THIS! Thanks Clay!!!

My ex was giving me lot of hot and cold sign. Then she finally reach out to me then she started sending me pictures of her sister.after that she Disappear😅. After 5 days she text me that how are you. Then I replied her I am good.then she said take care off yourself.and said me It's my last text i swear 😅🖐️.then I replied to her text takecare of your self.then she read my text and disappear.again

My wife and I have been separated for almost 7 months she still gives me one word answers on texts when applicable lol but will talk on the phone for a hour or more 🥴🤦🏽‍♂️

Hey, What if you guys were physical but plan to meet up to discuss what happened. He keeps saying it was a lesson learned via text but still keeps contacting me.

Smoking pot bru

I was the perfect wife. I did everything to take care of him, cooked everything from scratch (a lot of Mediterranean food), cleaned everything, chores, errands, caregiving. He has Borderline Personality Disorder and diabetes and I took care of him so much. I never complained, never criticized, always told him I appreciate him and I praised him every day. He strangled me. Police separated us. He rebounded with a woman who is the same age as him but looks like she could be his aunty. She seems to be on crystal meth. She also has Borderline Personality Disorder like me. She is married but lies that her marriage is open (the wife disagrees to an open marriage). She comes onto my ex-fiancé and when he turns her down she calls him fat and says she doesn't like him anyways. Now it seems that they have reunited. If she doesn't get her way, she claims abuse, which is just like him. My ex-fiancé does not have the glow he had when he was with me. He looks ill now. He has a psycho look in his eyes. I have PTSD from being strangled. My light has gone out. But yeah the new supply is an epic downgrade

Omg what. I am literallyyyy watching Sailor moon. Right now. Wtfff🤯🤯🤯 crazy.. I call that a synchronicity!! Bc this yesterday I was manifesting a text from my SP and manifesting for them to think abt me. And I listened to manyyy affirmations and videos on manifestation all day. And I dreamed about my SP last night and would’ve you know,, I get a snap from them.🤯🤯 And we’ve been snapping a bit on and off but throughout the day. And it’s sooo insane you mentioned Sailor moon!! And as for other synchronicities, I see their birth sequence, and their full initials on car license plates, and numbers like 333, 777, 111 a lot lately. I believe there is something happening behind the scenes. And I don’t wanna lose heart. Thank you

1. Reaction stage - a narrative they’re creating for themself 2. Reality Stage - they realize they’re overcommitted w/ someone they don’t have an emotional connection with 3. The Reckoning- they realize the rebound isn’t the person they projected them to be, their narrative is crumbling, this is where trouble begins as they realize they’re not better than the ex, it doesn’t mean the rebound relationship will fail, if 2 people choose to stay together they will whether it’s a bad relationship or not 4. The Resolution - not all rebounds end but if they do it happens at this point in all the conflict, they decide to break up or stay together.

Well, if the man ghosted me for several months you should i junp on him once he gives me a tiny hope. Of course i ghost him back. Nevertheless, mostly who started the no contact thazs the culprit they just need to get their karma back

Incredibly childish not to have self reflection.

This can't happen when they dont reach out. And women dont come back after dumping you. They expect you to chase. And you cant pursue someone from a place of strength. My biggest struggle rn is just accepting that i was alone in the relationship and she saw no real value in the 10 years we spent together. I wasted my life

True. Withholding emotions and communication when you need it the most will lead to tears. Give through that a few too many times.

Fool. Women don’t experience guilt. 🙄🤣

None of it matters everybody talks too much. Just get yourself together for the children and go your separate ways and as far as the children are concerned, just letting you know you’re both failed.

I let my ex see me with someone else, he drop me, he knows I love him but he is acting stupid by not coming back

I'm glad my ex saw me with another guy, he drop me last year and blocked me every where, I didn't move on but acted like I did, he had a mad face seeing me with some other guy and kissing him in front of him, power to me it's a challenge to them 🤣

He left me 6 months ago after losing our second pregnancy, always said we were going to get married gave me a promise ring to promise an engagement ring, he never updated his fb status to in a relationship when we were together 1y7m. Told everyone I was his wife. I didn’t care about fb bc we were never on it. Now he has his status changed to engaged. He hasn’t spoken to me since Jan 2 he told me we were never getting back together. I’m crushed bc how can someone do that someone he said would be the only woman for him, the only mother of his children. I felt like I was getting better then seen that I wasn’t stalking somehow my cousin seen his page and told me.. I’m in shock

Nah! Time to move on and flush that turd down the toilet. Ain't worth it.

My ex girlfriend disrespected me via a text. Broke up with her in person, on good terms, 2 weeks later, out of nowhere, she blew a gasket and sent me several texts telling me to "F" off (I think she may have had a few drinks), and that "she was the woman for me", now she's trying to be my buddy. I'm ignoring her, as I DON'T tolerate disrespect. A week later, she apologized, I forgave her, yet still not wanting anything to do with her. Why? I don't tolerate disrespect. Now, I no longer reply to her texts, as I know who she truly is now. Is this what you would do Clay? I'm 66 years old and taking the high road. Curious if most men, in todays world, would tell her to "F' off, or simply continue to ignore. Let me know my friend. TIA.

I am a new subscriber, really like ur content 🥰🙏

I hadnt seen her two years sge invited me to a dierka bently concert we had a great time got intimate she text me for a few days after saying i love you then stopped hearing from her

Sounds like you are justifying her lies. Lying is never acceptable. No matter the intention, lying erodes any trust and destroys relationships

Posting public relationship quotes on Facebook?

I wrote a letter to my ex , 4 months into our breakup. Took him 4 days to even read it . Today he let me know he read it and then said never mind sorry for texting you , bye have a good day ?? Idk what to make of that . Ima just assume he moved on

I would love to do this but most ex’s don’t want to talk to you at all or work anything out once they have made the decision to break up with you. The best thing to do is no contact and give them the breakup they asked for. I am not sure what situation would work with what you are describing? I know for a fact it doesn’t work on my ex because I tried it for over a year multiple times. He doesn’t want to talk to me or see me. He just makes excuses why he is too busy/ sick/ tired/ stressed and doesn’t have time to talk to me or see me. He says he can’t be in a healthy relationship now. The only solution for my own sanity and for him to ever possibly miss me is no contact. I wish I stayed no contact when he first broke up with me. I wish I could go back and redo the last few years of our relationship too maybe he wouldnt have left me. I wish I found all the relationship advice I know now sooner. But all I can do now is stay no contact. If he wants to talk to me and try to work anything out he will come to me. If he doesn’t then that means he doesn’t want to. He sends breadcrumbs because all he wants is to feel like we are still friends and he can ask me a question or say hi if he feels like it every other week or so but not actually have a relationship with me anymore or have me in his life or be in mine. I don’t want that

My ex already told me that she downgraded, and when she told me was in the honeymoon period

How do you have communication when it is received wrong. It does not seem like i can say anything right.

I went no contact..and I want to stay no contact until my dieing day..😂..these people never change...they can be such beautiful people..kind and lovely to be around..but when it changes and the negative thinking takes a hold..your doomed..I was sad to let her go..but after 5 times of leaving it was time to say goodbye..I told her...its true i love you very much....its also true...sometimes we have to let go of the people we love the most.

Hey clay .. I will be honest I have cheated but not physically my x many times broken up got back together many times also lied and hurt her in many ways got down with infront of her family and freinds who don’t like me at all and the last break up happened a month again and I raised my hand on her as well she has left the country as we work abroad together and living she has taken emergency leave and left I’m worried if she will come back or not please 🙏 let me know I been trying to reach out to her I tried couple of times but it’s not happening what should I do ? Should I Be in no contact completely??

You kinda look like Jay Baruchel, also good video. Currently in NC 3 months.

I kinda did this with my DA ex. I really miss her company, so I wrote to her to say, let's just be friends. Goin for the odd coffee....pub....or walks. At her pace as and when she wants. I didn't pressure her or anything. Did I do right or wrong? We had a great, but short, relationship. No arguments, just laughs.... Until a week later, her best friend sadly passed away and I think this mayve triggered her into ending things.

How can I possibly know what he thinks or feels when he doesn’t talk about it?

we don't want our x back...

7:20 sounds so manipulative

This is our 2nd break. I want him back. Please help!!!

his with someone else 😢

ex told me to move on. i agreed i didnt fight it or beg etc.. 4 days later she breaks no contact..what up with that shit

Home run

Thank you Clay for your videos. Me and my ex seeing each other now every week an an event is hoisting regularly. We just spent yesterday nice hours together conversating and plaing board games. Then when we were alone he reiterated after long time of breaking up is over and the past is in the past. I told him I know and he has a girl friend. I replied was not because of that. I dodn't ask him for anything. Just had a nice evening. All of a sudden he resurface the old story after, I mean years. He keep reitterating the same concept. He got scared and is at the crisis point or he is just over me for real? Once again thank you.😊

so you want to take someone back who has already left once ??

Or, don't ever take back your ex. You are assuming they return from good intent.

Im so sorry for your loss. May god bless you and your family.

My ex got into a rebound 2 months after our break up, 9 weeks ago he purposely came to a place where he knew I would be I had done 4 months of no contact , my ex showed all the signs of wanting to get back with me compliments, very close hugs and kisses sharing his life with me and telling me about his mothers health, asking all the time what have you been up to very touchy feely. When he said goodbye he called me back to say could I give his regards to my Dad and he also wanted to make up with my son9 weeks later I hear now that he is getting engaged to his rebound I cannot believe it. We were together 7 years.

How

My ex is with a rebound and now they are getting engaged

Ex and i are talking more now on text than we ever did when dating laughing emojies

Never go back to the fire that burned you.

Happy for her.. sad for him. Bye Felicia. Hard disconnect if she monkey branches, then its not my circus and not my monkeys - I got better things to do and better people to see.

My ex dumped me, was a good relationship. Week 4 he tried to get closer to me and spent time with me, i didnt het that at that time, only after, i was foolled by the videos who screamed do no contact.. Now, two weeks later after i refused spending time together, i am wondering what can i do to reverse things.. Pls, help

Im claiming this because i know deep down he misses me and want me still. ❤